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Everything Happens for a Reason

I believe that everything happens for a reason.

People change so that you can learn to let go
Things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right
You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself
And sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
I trust that everything happens for a reason, even when we're not wise enough to see it.

Love and Other Drugs

Cinta tidak selalu romantis, meskipun terkadang bayangan saya tentang cinta sama seperti kebanyakan orang. Sederhananya, dari usia muda kita diberitahu untuk menemukan satu orang, dan tidak ada orang lain. Mengalokasikan perhatian pada satu orang dan mengabaikan pengalaman menakjubkan dari mencintai miliaran jiwa yang menghuni bumi ini.
Tidak ada kuota untuk cinta, dengan mencintai orang lain selain dirimu sendiri tidak akan membuatmu bangkrut secara emosional. Cinta adalah sebuah keinginan untuk pemenuhan, kebahagiaan dan sukacita dari yang lain, menjaga mereka dalam pikiran dan mendukung peran mereka sebagai manusia. Cinta adalah terlibat dengan sesuatu di luar diri sendiri. Itulah mengapa akan terasa luar biasa bersama orang yang kita cintai, mereka membawa kita jauh dari kesibukan, dan membuat kita merasa gembira, mabuk oleh dunia.
Cinta telah muncul dalam banyak ilusi. Meski terkadang kita mendapatkannya, kemudian kembali kehilangan. Tetapi tidak ada yang pernah benar-benar hilang, kita tidak akan di rugikan, kita selalu memiliki kenangan. Kita semua belajar dari falling deeply in love, denial, hysteria, delusion, dan dari saat-saat kita harus memungut kepingan-kepingan hati yg terpecah.

This is all I have for now. I am still learning. I am still loving...

Speechless

One word describes my reaction... 'Speechless'." Thank you!!!!

Sometimes words are not necessary and the signs are more effective. There is something about sign language that you makes you really listen with awareness.

LGBT Pride Month.

Happy Pride!

Kembali pada tahun 2000, Bill Clinton meresmikan Juni “Gay and Lesbian Pride Month” - meskipun sudah dirayakan (tidak secara resmi) selama beberapa dekade sebelumnya. Dan kemudian pada tahun 2009, Barack Obama memperpanjang judul bulan untuk memasukkan transgender dan biseksual. Di Amerika Serikat, Juni sekarang resmi dikenal sebagai nasional "LGBT Pride Month.”Setiap orang merayakan Pride dengan cara yang berbeda. Ada circuit parties, mega-club nights atau colorful parades. Beberapa dari kita, termasuk saya sendiri, mengambil pendekatan introspektif lebih tenang.Bagi saya, Pride is about letting your flame burn bright. Ini tentang merayakan orientasi seksual dan identitas gender. Merangkul keragaman.


Jadi Happy Pride, kawan!

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Drdrdrdrdrdr... Hape bergetar. Matikan rokok.
"Halo"
"Floo..." suara yang sama.
"Kamu, Dhi...?" bibir bergetar. Jantung berderap.
"Iya" Sunyi yang canggung, "Sebelas tahun ya?"
"Mmh, Lebih. Kemana saja?"
"Sembunyi""‘Dari?"
"Dunia. Semua"
Hening sesaat.
"Termasuk dari aku?"
Kamu memilih diam

It's Me.. Just Me.

The name, I’m me, who are you? I tell things the way they are.
I cut straight to the point. I’m me, and will always be myself.
I don't try to act like someone else, I don't try to dress like someone else,
I’m me, if you don't like it then just leave me alone. I don't care about what others think of me.

I’m happy just being me, I don't want to be anyone else.
I’m unique, One of a kind. I’m me, no one can be me. I’m me, myself,
Not you, her, them or anyone. I’m me, take it or leave it.

I a m me because I dress the way I wanna dress and speak the way I wanna speak Iam me because I walk with my head held high I sometimes believe I can touch the sky…Iam me because the way I present my self is the way I wanna be represented something I call Self Expression… my flaws Is some what skin deep… only can be seen in me and you not being superman my flaws go un seen.

I'am me because my opinion is what matter to me. I strive to get to the top no matter if it breaks me or make me. I'am Me, because what you say I can't do I will prove you wrong and do the exact opposite…

I'am Me, because when you say girl like you hahaha nah.. I am just being me. With that said I'am Me, a girl who live life not caring if I go unseen because I'am ME…

Unless you’ve lived my life don’t judge me because you don’t know never have & never will know every little thing & detail about me.


Pict by : Fernando Diaz

A wonderful thing

Coming out is a wonderful thing – but it’s not something you have to do do today, tomorrow or even this year. The most important thing about coming out: Only do it when you’re ready. Listen to your heart and you’ll know when it’s time...

You’ll Never Believe What May Is…

Save money, Save time,
Minimizes stress, Cure headaches,
Hurt nobody,
Anger the pope.... SEX.

Yup it's true... :D


Better sleep. A sexier physique. Stronger immunity. Sound like the effects of the latest wonder drug? Nope, it's just the many physical benefits of having a satisfying sexual relationship.
And all this time you were just making love because it was fun! If you're looking for more reasons to get romantic, consider the following:

1. You're getting a good workout. Would you rather run 75 miles or have sex three times a week for one year? While both burn the same number of calories (about 7,500), one is decidedly more pleasurable than the other. Regular sex - which burns approximately 150 calories in a half-hour -- is regular exercise. You'll have all the same benefits of spending that time in the gym, including improved circulation, lower cholesterol and the release of feel-good endorphins.

2. You won't get sick. According to research by Dr. Carl Charnetski, professor of psychology at Wilkes University in Wilkes-Barre, Pa and co-author of Feeling Good is Good For You, people who reported one or two sexual episodes per week enjoyed higher levels of Immunoglobin A, the antibody that helps fend of illness.

3. You'll feel happier. In addition to the obvious boost in satisfaction, feeling secure in your relationship leads to a greater sense of well-being. Women in particular may see even more benefits. Researchers at the State University of New York at Albany found that women who regularly came into contact with semen were significantly less depressed than those who didn't get a dose of those potent sex hormones and naturally occurring opiates.

4. You'll reduce stress. People who get it on regularly report that they handle stress better. The release of climax will get even the most anxious lover totally relaxed, and you know you'll sleep better.

5. You'll live longer (and look younger!). A British study of 1,000 men found that those who had at least two orgasms per week had half the death rate of those who indulged less than once a month. Sex can make you look younger, too, according to neuropsychologist David Weeks, who found that couple who reported having sex an average of four times per week looked approximately 10 years younger than they really were.

So.. lets have some sex honey.... ;)

Discrimination, Hatred, and even Violence

Diskriminasi, kebencian, pelecehan, dalam berbagai tingkat, dari lingkungan straight mungkin bukan hal asing bagi kaum minoritas gay. Bahkan diskriminasi dapat berupa hal sepele seperti gurauan-gurauan yang sebenarnya dapat dikategorikan sebagai pelecehan. Tapi aku pikir kita terlalu fokus menjadi korban dari semua kebencian tersebut, karna terkadang kita lupa bahwa kita pun bisa menjadi pelaku diskriminasi terhadap kaum kita sendiri.
Pagi ini, aku membaca tentang diskriminasi dalam komunitas gay. Mengingatkanku tentang cerita seorang kawan, bagaimana dia diperlakukan dengan sangat buruk oleh orang terdekatnya pemaksaan, pemerasa, penipuan, ancaman membeberkan identitas nya sebagai gay ke keluarga dan lingkungan kerjanya, bahkan kekerasan fisik. Seorang waria berbicara tentang diskriminasi yang dia alami - bukan dari orang straight, tetapi dari dalam lingkungannya.

Kita selalu memperjuangkan persamaan hak pada dunia, menghapus diskriminasi terhadap LGBT. Namun kita seperti menutup mata terhadap hal-hal buruk yang terjadi dalam komunitas kita sendiri.

Menyadari diskriminasi dalam komunitas gay merupakan langkah pertama yang sangat besar dalam mengatasinya. Mungkin hal yang paling efektif dapat kita lakukan adalah memperlakukan satu sama lain - dalam pikiran, kata dan tindakan - sebagai saudara dan saudari kita yang sebenarnya.

Kita semua bisa berbuat lebih baik...