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The good past, the bad past

The past, the good parts and bad, is there for a reason, every element of it has had a hand in who I am today. I am to into reminiscing to leave everything in the past. The present is excellent, and I usually love enjoying it, but there are certain times where it’s just better if I have something to distract myself with other then what’s happening at the present time. And I think about the future WAY to much to ever stop. The future is such a grand mystery, and I take pleasure in trying to figure out parts of that mystery, or at least have a basic plan for my life. I guess I plan to much to leave the future in the future. This is as close as I’m ever going to get to this goal which is why I give up. I’m just not cut out to be someone who lives in the moment all the time, more like when it’s appropriate, I can get very caught up in a moment, but sometimes I just can’t get myself to do it. Ok, I’m now officially rambling. Good luck to you all! Just because I can’t, or maybe don’t want t...

Perkawinan

Dalam teori, perkawinan selalu diromantisasi. Lembaga itu di ibaratkan sebagai jenjang kehidupan yang manis. Puncak dari pertemuan dua hati yang digetarkan arus listrik yang senada. Sepasang manusia saling tertarik. bukan sekedar untuk bersahabat. mereka ingin sayang menyayangi, kasih mengasihi, bela-membela dan jangan lupa bercinta secara bebas. Dalam ikatan perkawinan permainan asmara tidak menjadi dosa dan kejahatan. Seks tidak menjadi kotor tetapi kebutuhan rohani yang dihalalkan. Untuk melindungi hasrat sepasang merpati ini, diperlukan pengesahan ritual dan proteksi hukum. Orang yang setuju menikah adalah sepasang manusia yang ingin hidup bersama, membentuk rumah-tangga dengan pembenaran secara legal, kultural, dan ritual. Dalam ikatan kawin, pasangan itu kemudian bebas bermain asmara sepuas-puasnya dan juga aman dari gangguan pihak ketiga dengan jaminan hukum. Pokoknya enak.... Tetapi itu teori. Di dalam prakteknya, kata lain.... Seorang lelaki yang sudah kawin kepalanya tidak la...

Mess with me... ?

".. are you sure don't want to know me first, before you think you can mess with me....?"